Writing An Obituary

Writing An Obituary

Writing an obituary for a loved one can feel overwhelming, but it's also a meaningful way to honor their life. You may wonder what facts to include and how to balance the essential details with a narrative that captures their essence. We’re here to guide you through this process and provide helpful insights on how to write a meaningful obituary.

Writing An Obituary


An obituary allows you to share your loved one’s story not only with your immediate family but also with future generations. It's a personal way to record their history and impact on the world.

While the specifics are up to you, we suggest that, alongside basic details, you consider including the following:



  • Parents’ names
  • Information about their spouse and children
  • Church or religious affiliations
  • Career details and accomplishments
  • Personal character and interests
  • Their influence on family, friends, and community


Take time to reflect on the memories that highlight your loved one’s personality and passions. We encourage you to mix factual details with personal anecdotes to paint a vivid picture of who they were and what they loved. The more detailed and personal the obituary, the more lasting and meaningful it becomes.

Including The Basics


While an obituary offers a deeper look into your loved one’s life, a death notice is typically a concise statement with essential facts. Key information for both includes:


  • Full name (and any commonly used nicknames)
  • Maiden name (for married women)
  • Date of birth and date of death
  • Age at the time of death
  • Birthplace
  • Last residence
  • Location of death (city/state)
  • Surviving relatives
  • Funeral service details (date, time, location)



By blending these basic facts with more personal reflections, you can craft an obituary that both informs and honors the life of your loved one.